Youth Affairs

We know that there are young ladies who just don’t go out with every Jack that proposes.  They have high standards and so they class a guy before they can think of going out with him.  It’s just how they roll, those are their standards and they stick to them.
A lot of people call girls like these Gold Diggers, while a few understand that it’s just standards that they have set for themselves.
So I ask what you think of ladies like these? Do you think that girls like this are gold diggers or do you understand that they just don’t want to have guys who are broke and cannot care for them the way they would like to be cared for?
I used to call such people gold diggers but after doing thorough research and talking to ladies who live by these standards, I have come to understand their side of their story.  Yes my people, yours truly hit the streets and did one or two interviews.
You see, i believe a gold digger is a person who just wants to use a guy with no feelings at all for the poor guy.  Ke gore a batla go motoba fela e seng sepe gape (in other words to just chow the guy).  Gold diggers actually go around looking for guys to prey on.  Hence the name and gold digger, they dig for gold!
While ladies with high standards have really expensive taste.  Every thing that they use, wear, drink and eat isn’t cheap.  Basically these girls are of high maintenance so it’s best they go out with guys who are really financially stable. But they don’t only go out with guys because they’ve got money.  They make sure they like the guy before they can get involved with them.  Fa lorato lo seyo ga gona fa ba tsenang teng (where there is not love, they are not interested).  I hope I’m making sense guys.
One other thing is that a girl with high standards may already be an independent lady who can get herself almost everything that she wants.  She just wants a guy with money to match her lifestyle.  Gold diggers on the other hand don’t really have much, most of them ga ba nang ga ba nang (they are just poor).
I have noticed that parents also have high standards.  Some people grow up with the attitude of only getting married to men with money because of their parents. It’s not a bad thing though its just shows that the parents want nothing but the best for their daughters.  They want a man who will take care of their child and give the child everything that she needs and want. That’s how much our parents love us guys, so make sure you appreciate them.
I hope I made sense my beautiful people and that you now know the difference between a girl with high standards and a gold digger.

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Nana

we all know the difference, its just that we are a bitter people. obviously if i want you but cannot afford you, i wil label yu a gold digger. yu shud hear us telling stories of how woolworths buys from “chinese” factories and just puts W label to differentiate the clothes from those we find at cheap shops (no names to avoid being sued). those ladies who, like Jesus, bring salvation to poor men, also get labels such as “desperate” or “bo-Opelo”. this life?????

king

i wud rather go for prostitutes than spend all my hard earned cash on some idiot,gals nid to understand that luv aint wat u hv bt who u are.i wud rather stay singl nd do myslf than be chowed

cap

if she can maintain herself i have no problem at all. eseng motho a batla go ikutlwisa madi ka nna. no way!le rona as guys we have tastes

Peaches

@Nana:Hehehe!!You killing me!!!I was once told that there the only difference between a Levi’s pair of jeans and ya ko Machaeneng ke the red/silver tag!!!

leghwara

a gone mme nka tsaya motho hela yoo nkgang dithako ka mo pega mo kloing yame abo a lala a robetse mo dikobong tsame tsa madi a na le monko wa lechono kere ke tshaba go bidiwa gold digger,class hny thats what it is.

enockvile

love is ol that counts,of course there n there u have to look at rily what that peerson is up to in life but i think sumthingz are jus too much,ivin bo moikapari hela o itlhela ba re ba batla clasy guyz,yes u wil find one but one thing for shiz he not up to makin life with becauz u are not of his class 2,jus puff n pass..ene if they realise u are that type ya zaka they dont mind popin out but ba tla go fetsa….lov is ol that counts tlogelang go rata madi motho ko ga bone… Read more »

love t

they are lying ba re its a question of class.we are used to this rhetoric.i am not saying that ladies should go for smelly guys with dirty clothes but the majority of the so called classy ladies dont have a dime on their pockets.they maintain their so called class by sleeping with one loaded guy after another,buy expensive staff and then call themselves classy

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@love t,i agree wit ya… however not all of them,im finding it hard to date because i’m not cheap, i dnt care about what a guy hass but because of my expensive taste they think i’m picky even though ke sa nna jalo.Most of my handbags,shoes,etc are designers,i can afford them,if my boyfriend dsnt have cash to buy me a guess bag i wouldn’t dump him becuz of the love i have 4him…as u know most men have testosterone issues,they are very insecure,if a woman is independent they say she is picky and bossy if she isn’t they say she… Read more »

Coco

Nna ebile im very strict,if you have the money but no education i will show you the door. Bo “Benny comes to town” simply dont cut it. I want a man who can have an intelligent conversation even when he is being silly!

cap

true that enockvile and love t, o ba bone ba setse ba feditswe ke those loaded guys. they wil fall for anything that passes by. kana they would be finished klaar. we know a lot of them

bathn ma 14 ke tsone di gold diggerz.lona ba le ba kgonan tel thm aids kilz monate ga o fele go fela bone

T-jay

nnyaa batho,mongwe le mongwe o na le motho wa gagwe.fa wena o rata bo mmanchekgwane kana bo rabaki thats ok but gona le batho baba ratang bomme or borre ba ba itlolang ebile ba ithaloganya..so lona borre ba le sa kgoneng go ntlafatsa makgarebe a lona togelang go fa excuse ya gore ke di gold digger..seo ke digammoroso tsa bofelo.if u cant handle it,then togelela ba ba kgonang..fa batho ba le babedi ba utwana ebile ba thaloganya botsala ja bone,seo ke kgang ya bone..so ppl shud nt compromise di standards tsa bone ba tshaba gore batho ba ta reng.nnya betsho…

Fifie

u a toking guys,evri 1 got his/her taste buds so how u do yo things its up to u nd is none of them i min who eva lyks ither ppls business,,,,its vary guys

lebogang Koketso

now i get. thought South African Khanyi was jus defending herself saying she doesn settle for less. i mean everybody got thre right to make their own choices fat pocket or coins wil do

estohs

i thnk evrone has got his own taste so…we dnt hv 2 judge each ada guyz

jeez

nna ke a gana why is it that motho fa a nale taste o batla monna wa modi,why cant you just rely on you own money and forget about madi a ngwana yo mongwe .as long as a se smelly ebile a ithokomela gape ale independent i think he deserves to date those so called classy girls.If those gals want class they must be the master of their destiny and afford everything for themselves

Sizzler

likewise.. we (men) also have expensive taste..um concerned with a situation whereby is always one party making a lot of contribution 2 a love affair…pple lets meet each other halfway 2 avoid misunderstandings

Temba

women are here to impoverish men. What is this “you cannot afford me” thing.? Are they on sale? maybe thats why some men treat you like objects with price tags on them. women get away with a lot hence all the problems we have in the world. try to be productive and maybe when u say i cant afford u ill understand y. eseng o tsoga ka fa tlase ga setlhare hela o bo bua mawaza!

botsgab

Every lady has a price tag ….

beauty

if its nt gold digging, why dnt ths ladies look at the guy first nd nt the size of his paycheck. Hw cn u check out a guy’s assets pele o bo o re “oh yeah, he earns 10 figures…mmm, ok i luv hm”? i min seriously, ke gold digging goo moo.

mis G

nna tota no one cn afford me ga o sena madi heta ke ka dirang ka wena o sena madi.i worth millions

DR.KLOW

it depends,a gals with high standards become selfish along the the way and become golddigger

mioskey

dilo tse go tswa hela tse.

monks

common guys,where are our morals,we hav forgotten God.lets put god before everything.we hav turned everything that god has created and made it evil.look-from marriage,love,a woman.

Skhumo

Those kind of people are called Gold-diggers…taste, starndard or whatever.!! If you are refered to as a GD then you are one.period!!

cry me

IF THE SO CALLED “CLASSY GALS” HAVE THERE OWN MONEY,WHY DO THEY WANT A GUY WITH A FAT CHEQUE? WHY CANT THEY JUST STICK TO THERE OWN MONEY N DEMAND LOVE ONLY?WHY DO U NEED MONEY THAT U ALREADY HV?GA GONA SEPE SA BO CLASSY BATHO BA BA BOLAWA KE DIKOLOTO,WHAT EVER EXPENSIVE MATERIALS THEY HAVE DI TSERWE KA CREDIT.SO KE DI GOLD DIGGERS HIDING BEHIND CLASS PERIOD!