We know that there are young ladies who just don’t go out with every Jack that proposes. They have high standards and so they class a guy before they can think of going out with him. It’s just how they roll, those are their standards and they stick to them.
A lot of people call girls like these Gold Diggers, while a few understand that it’s just standards that they have set for themselves.
So I ask what you think of ladies like these? Do you think that girls like this are gold diggers or do you understand that they just don’t want to have guys who are broke and cannot care for them the way they would like to be cared for?
I used to call such people gold diggers but after doing thorough research and talking to ladies who live by these standards, I have come to understand their side of their story. Yes my people, yours truly hit the streets and did one or two interviews.
You see, i believe a gold digger is a person who just wants to use a guy with no feelings at all for the poor guy. Ke gore a batla go motoba fela e seng sepe gape (in other words to just chow the guy). Gold diggers actually go around looking for guys to prey on. Hence the name and gold digger, they dig for gold!
While ladies with high standards have really expensive taste. Every thing that they use, wear, drink and eat isn’t cheap. Basically these girls are of high maintenance so it’s best they go out with guys who are really financially stable. But they don’t only go out with guys because they’ve got money. They make sure they like the guy before they can get involved with them. Fa lorato lo seyo ga gona fa ba tsenang teng (where there is not love, they are not interested). I hope I’m making sense guys.
One other thing is that a girl with high standards may already be an independent lady who can get herself almost everything that she wants. She just wants a guy with money to match her lifestyle. Gold diggers on the other hand don’t really have much, most of them ga ba nang ga ba nang (they are just poor).
I have noticed that parents also have high standards. Some people grow up with the attitude of only getting married to men with money because of their parents. It’s not a bad thing though its just shows that the parents want nothing but the best for their daughters. They want a man who will take care of their child and give the child everything that she needs and want. That’s how much our parents love us guys, so make sure you appreciate them.
I hope I made sense my beautiful people and that you now know the difference between a girl with high standards and a gold digger.