Last week I was walking with a friend of mine (who happens to be a boy) going to buy food when he noticed something rather interesting. Almost every girl that passed us looked at me in a rather funny way, head to toe!
This I must say is quiet disturbing and scary if you know what I mean. So my guy friend asked what was up with the looks I was getting and I was as shocked and clueless as he was.
I then remembered that the looks were an every day issue that I never really put much thought into. Either I’m just taking a walk or changing classes some girls just have to give me the devil eye. And this guy friend of mine wasn’t the first to actually realize that girls give each other the eye when passing each other, fa yo mongwe a le montle thata gone, go nna worse! ( especially when the other girl is hot and cuter than the other). Coming to think of it even if a girl is cute, she just has to hate the other girl simply because she is a girl,you just have to find something to criticize about the next girl. This is sad I must say, very sad.
So I ask you my beautiful people, why do you think this happens? You see, I think girls are just simply insecure and jealous of each other. We tend to compare ourselves with the next girl and most of the times we get disappointed maybe because the next girl has got game and you don’t. So much stress we put ourselves through for what reason I don’t know!
If a girl has good fashion taste, we just have to hate, if a girl has got the hottest hair style, we just have to criticize, if a girl has got a beautiful body, we just have to find something wrong with the body. I mean come on girls, do we have to be like this. Is it plain human nature for girls to hate on each other, why can’t we just get along like guys huh?
Don’t we get tired of analyzing other beautiful girls, shouldn’t we be doing something productive instead of doing this? You see this is why guys ba re re nale tshele e ntsi gape re seba thata (say we gossip a lot).
As embarrassing as it is I also do the same, sometimes of course. I guess it’s simply because I am a girl and its my job to hate other girls. No girl can tell me that they haven’t hated on a girl before, never! It’s either you do it and don’t show it, or you do it and show it by giving the other the evil look. This has to stop ladies, it has to stop. The sad part is that not only young people do this but older ladies also have the tendency of doing this! A matlhotlhapelo ruri (problems I tell you)!
This attitude has to change people, let’s all learn to appreciate when another girl is looking beautiful or is simply hotter that you are. Again, let’s not hate when one’s boyfriend is as fine as hell and yours isn’t. Go tlhabisa ditlhong that some girls give the evil eye just because the others’ boyfriend is handsome and yours isn’t and sometimes some even vow to steal the boyfriend! Amazing behavior I tell you, truly amazing! Change for the better ladies, change for the better!