I’m a 22- year- old guy who is heartbroken because my girlfriend cheats on me.
I forgave her more than once but she keeps on repeating although she had said it was a mistake the first time it happened.
I feel very sad because of what she’s doing to me and I’m beginning to lose trust in women.
I’m scared that even if I find another woman she would also cheat on me. Should I become gay or what?
Should you “become gay”? What a question!
There’s a raging debate worldwide, including right here in Botswana, as to whether or not people are born gay.
You want to know if you should become gay just because you’re afraid the next woman would play you like the previous one did.
Being gay is not something that you can just wake up one day and choose to “become”; and besides, even gay people have cheaters among them.
What if you “become” gay and your partner cheats on you, what would you do? Would you then lose trust in men and go back to dating women?
You can’t just switch on and off between being heterosexual and homosexual.
For detailed information on what it means to be gay and whether or not you can “become” one, contact LEGABIBO on 3932516.
To help you deal with your relationship woes, i.e. the constant heartbreak and sadness that you’ve been subjected to by your girlfriend, seek counselling.